Of course I don't mind if you add me. :-) I'm smiling at your Laughing Cavalier moment, since I was very much the same as a child. I once dressed up as a cavalier for a fancy dress competition, and my tenth birthday party was themed around cavaliers and roundheads - complete with cavalier cake, cavalier games ("pin the ear on the cavalier") and English Civil War themed place settings. It was only many years later that I looked back on that and realised quite how weird everyone probably thought I was. It felt perfectly normal to me.